When we think of near-death experiences (NDEs), we often imagine adults recalling tunnels of light, peaceful feelings, or encounters with spiritual beings. But what happens when a child comes close to death?
Can a child—who may not yet fully understand the concept of death—have an NDE? And if so, how does it compare to what adults describe?
In this article, we explore what research and real-life stories reveal about near-death experiences in children, and why their accounts might be some of the most compelling of all.
Can Children Experience an NDE?
Yes. Children of all ages—including infants, toddlers, and teenagers—have reported experiences that match the core elements of adult NDEs.
Despite their young age or limited vocabulary, these children often describe:
- Leaving their body and watching from above
- Feeling calm, safe, and loved
- Seeing a bright light or beautiful place
- Meeting beings or deceased family members
- Being told to return because it “wasn’t their time”
Their accounts are often spontaneous and emotionally powerful, even when they lack the language to explain fully.
What Do Children Describe?
Children’s NDEs often share these key characteristics:
1. Simple, Clear Language
Children may say things like:
- “I flew above my body.”
- “There was a light and it felt like love.”
- “I saw Grandma, but she said I had to go back.”
- “It was the best place ever.”
Their descriptions tend to be less complex but highly emotional, often focused on feelings rather than analysis.
2. Encounters with Deceased Loved Ones
Children frequently report seeing relatives they never met—like grandparents, siblings lost to miscarriage, or even pets. In some cases, they provide details they couldn’t have known, which has startled parents and researchers alike.
3. Peaceful or Joyful Sensations
Just like adults, children often recall feeling:
- No pain or fear
- Surrounded by love
- Protected and comforted
- Disappointed to return
These emotional themes appear across different ages and cultures.
4. Unawareness of Death as a Concept
One of the most fascinating aspects is that many children don’t fully understand death at the time of their experience. They may not have religious beliefs or ideas about the afterlife.
Yet their stories mirror adult NDEs, suggesting the experience itself is not shaped by expectation or belief.
Notable Real-Life Cases
The Colton Burpo Case
At just four years old, Colton underwent surgery and later described visiting heaven, seeing Jesus, and meeting a sister his parents had never told him about. His story became the basis for the book and film Heaven Is for Real.
The “I Saw You” Moment
In several cases, children have surprised doctors or parents by describing what happened in the room while they were unconscious or clinically dead. For example:
- Recalling what nurses said
- Describing medical tools used
- Pointing out specific objects or actions they couldn’t have seen
These moments have led to increased interest in studying pediatric NDEs.
Do Children Interpret NDEs Differently?
Yes—and no.
- Yes, because they may use different words, metaphors, or images (such as playgrounds, animals, or storybook characters).
- No, because the core emotions and patterns—peace, love, light, floating—are remarkably similar to adult reports.
This consistency supports the idea that NDEs are not entirely shaped by culture or adult expectations.
How Do NDEs Affect Children Later in Life?
Many children who have had an NDE go on to:
- Lose their fear of death
- Develop strong empathy or intuition
- Become spiritually curious
- Feel “different” from their peers
- Remember the experience for life
However, they may also face confusion or isolation, especially if adults dismiss their story or don’t understand what they’ve gone through.
Some children stop talking about the experience altogether, only to revisit it in adulthood with new understanding.
What Do Researchers Say?
Pioneers like Dr. Melvin Morse, a pediatrician who has studied NDEs in children for decades, found that:
- Children’s NDEs occur across all backgrounds and belief systems
- The experiences often lead to emotional and psychological growth
- Their stories match those of adults in structure and tone
- Children are less likely to embellish or rationalize their experiences
This makes their accounts uniquely compelling, especially to researchers studying consciousness and life after death.
How Can Adults Support a Child Who Had an NDE?
If a child shares a near-death experience, here are some helpful steps:
- Listen without judgment
- Avoid labeling the story as a dream or fantasy
- Ask gentle questions like, “How did that make you feel?”
- Let them lead the conversation
- Consider seeking a counselor familiar with spiritual experiences if needed
Above all, treat the experience with respect and curiosity, not fear or dismissal.
Final Reflection: Little Voices, Big Truths
Children may not have the language, logic, or belief systems of adults—but when they speak about near-death experiences, they often do so with remarkable clarity, honesty, and awe.
Their stories remind us that NDEs may not be about belief at all. They may be about something universal—something deep within the human experience that transcends age, culture, and expectation.
When a child says, “I saw the light,” maybe we should be listening more closely—not just to the story, but to the mystery behind it.
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